islam: women, pray to the god who allows you to be beaten by your husbands

an important example of cognitive dissonance in islam that ayaan hirsi ali wants muslim women to wake up and realize:

01:08 we can for instance wake up to the fact that the god that says in chapter 4 verse 34 tells the husband you have the right to beat your woman, is the same god, after we are beaten and bruised, that we pray to for comfort.